Forgiving Self: Biblical Category or Meaningless Psychobabble?

Forgiving Self: Biblical Category or Meaningless Psychobabble?

You’ve heard it from people wrestling with guilt and shame: “I can’t forgive myself.” Sometimes, the sentiment is uttered by Christians who, at least verbally, acknowledge God’s forgiveness. The language is heard in counselling rooms, in small group conversations, in...
Poisoning Yourself: The Danger of Bitterness to the Soul

Poisoning Yourself: The Danger of Bitterness to the Soul

There is a particular cruelty to bitterness that is easy to miss in the early stages. When we are first wronged—when the hurt is fresh and the sense of injustice is acute—holding onto the grievance can feel almost righteous. It can feel like a refusal to minimise what...
When God Forgets: Forgiving and Forgetting Rightly Understood

When God Forgets: Forgiving and Forgetting Rightly Understood

Few phrases in the Christian vocabulary are more frequently used and more poorly understood than “forgive and forget.” It appears with great regularity in conversations about reconciliation, and carries an implicit expectation: that genuine forgiveness produces a kind...